Let it be known: one of the easiest ways to improve your sex life is to talk frankly about it with a sex partner. Part of a healthy relationship, communication is essential to making sure that you and your sex partner are on the same page about each others’ preferences, expectations and comfort zone.  Sexual preferences vary considerably from person to person– and from partnership to partnership. Touching base about sex before and after a sexual relationship has begun is a great way to ensure that you and your partner are sexually satisfied.

Although the suggestion of “talking about sex” usually resonates with people, actually getting down to talking (about getting down) can be a daunting prospect. After all, sex is personal. So, it’s no surprise that the idea of talking about it with someone else can be a scary thought. That’s where we come in!  Here are some tips for getting the conversation started, including questions you should consider asking your partner — and, of course, answering for yourself. Continue reading →